You can’t really predict minds especially when it comes to girls. But there are certain things that you can follow to make sure that you get a big win when you want to impress a girl.
Finding a beautiful girl to date is not difficult but what’s more difficult is to make her feel for you is the perfect match for her.
The first message you send to any girl is like that question in an exam which can give you the maximum marks. The first message decided where the chat will go, either to her spam box or to the main message.
Just to make sure that your profile is not in her spam folder there are few simple tips that you can follow:
Girls do not like guys who fake compliments. It is not very difficult to figure out for a girl if the guys actually mean the words he is saying or it's just the compliments dipped in coated sugar to impress her.
Your first message should never mention anything about her physical assets. Commenting on her assets will form a different image of you in her mind.
She may not be judgmental but this is one such thing that will never bind her to do so. Guys usually mix pick-up lines with compliments which are quite a problem. The compliments need to focus more on her qualities rather than her physical looks.
Girls never like guys who try to ask too much about her personal life. You can’t know everything about her in the first conversation. Relationships that share personal information about one another always share a comfort zone.
You can’t form that comfort zone in your very first conversation. You can start with very simple questions that don’t make her feel uncomfortable. Gradually, this will help you to know her better.
You need to play very smartly if you want to win her heart. Humor and presence of mind are two big qualities of any perfect guy. There are a number of topics you can hit on and start a conversation.
You can talk about her interests and hobbies. This will show your interest in her and you will be able to know her better.
This does not necessarily mean that you need to crack a joke. It completely depends on your presence of mind that how you find moments where you can make her laugh. Adventure is one such thing that most of the girls like.
Try making her feel that you actually believe in living your life to the fullest. In any case, if you share a common interest with her, Bingo! This is the one win-win situation for you. Go ahead, explore more about what she likes.
Guys who keep messaging girls one after the other are considered to be clingy. No girl ever like to date a guy who is clingy or irritating. You need to keep patience and wait for her to reply. Continuous messages show the desperation of a person.
Also, keep in mind that a girl always replies to messages only If she wants. Long and continuous can never force or compel her to talk to you and in return will turn your profile to be in her block list.
Before making a move of asking about her contact number think twice. Girls do not like sharing their contact very soon. You need to figure out if the girl is comfortable with you without her actually saying that directly.
Just in case if she makes any excuses in sharing her number this is a clear indication that she is not comfortable. Wait for the time when she herself makes the move.
Never misunderstand appreciations with false compliments. There are girls who really like their work and little appreciations to it can be a cherry on the cake. Men who appreciate women and her work are the ones most liked by. This is also a counter to show her respect and love.
Notice if she is trying to make any efforts for you. Tell her that you feel lucky about her being on your side. You need to show her that she plays a very important role in your life and she owes that priority.
Guys who usually think that girls are always behind the money are wrong. You don’t need to show off with what you have or fake being rich by lying to her. You can never impress her with all your money and gifts.
Thus guys who say “I can buy the world for you” often hurt her self-respect. A girl likes to be independent and does not want a guy to tell her that he can buy all her needs.
It’s all about how genuine as a person you are. Your little messages will define the relationship for you!