Has it ever happened that you have spent nights soaking the pillow with tears, jolting down your cheeks until the tear glands refused to function?
Lamenting the times and the efforts that you have shown towards a certain someone had nothing more to offer you except for days of anxiety, making you morose.
Well from crying over the high school crushes to experiencing our serious heartbreaks, we have come a long way and so have you.
Remember, not all are worthy of your feelings. You have to make wise choices before your life plunges into complete darkness.
We are different individuals with entirely different expectations and perspectives toward our lives. No two people can be identical, even if they are soul mates. The amount of effort that you show is never enough for another person from his or her point of view.
This can leave you shattered and helpless. They may not be diligent enough to acknowledge your value in their lives and treat you accordingly.
Since it becomes challenging for you to sink, then the present situation in, you will succumb to the adversities of life and either indulge in addiction or be a victim of acute depression and anxiety.
Days will be rough for you, and the nights will be eternal. All you will want will be the freedom from all the agonies that will make you take stupendous decisions, making your life and situation worse.
As you are shown down each day, you start losing your self-confidence and worth. This can create havoc in your life. No one can pull you out of this situation except for yourself. But you lose the will power to do so and it becomes tough for you to accept and turn the situation around.
Staying in a toxic relationship can hamper your health and your mind. You will feel dejected and dilapidated even while sitting next to the person you considered extremely close to you. The more days you spend with that person, the more depressed you feel by their actions, words, and gestures.
They do not value you and make you feel unimportant all the time. It is better to cut the ties while you still can, as it will only get worse with each passing day. The earlier you realize, the better it will be for you to buckle up.
As not everyone is like how you are, it is not possible for you to realize the situations beforehand and plan accordingly. However, before taking any final decision, it is crucial to maintain a safe distance and do not reveal everything about you and get involved completely.
Giving your 100% and expecting a full reciprocation from the other side is your first fault. Your affection and feelings can be genuine while the other person can be fraudulent enough to put the advantages to their use and leave you at the end, raising your expectations high enough, not to be able to accept the present situation.
Therefore, to conclude, getting committed without even knowing the person completely will only take you down the slide. Your counterparts are smart enough to drag you into a whirlpool leaving to perish. You will be facing the wrath of life and not find a single reason to make things better. Hence, check both the sides before crossing a major road.